Lead life on your own terms, say no to emotional abuse
M.P Janani, INN/Chennai, @infodeaofficialEmotions play a critical role in everybody’s life, they vary from time to time. Different situations make us react in a different manner and so are the emotions that we display. But it is better we exert care while we express these emotions, let us not be taken over by them. For there is every chance of being a victim of emotional abuse.
While age is no bar for emotions to get over individuals, abuse of them is all about making use of emotions as a tool to control people or make them do wrong things. Relationships too are no exemptions to emotional abuse. An emotional intimacy or admiration for anybody becomes an effective tool to either make any individual feel vulnerable or do things that are not ethical.
While victims of emotional abuse may find it challenging to battle life and situations surrounding them, relief can come to them if they can share their problems with people they trust. Move with confidence towards counselling with an expert will also help solve the problems caused by abuse of emotions.
Taking life out of us though may seem a solution for many under stress, but is not a right thing to do. Take refuge in a friend whom you can trust, there is nothing wrong in it. Our emotions must show us the way to achieve bigger things in life but not put us down and lose ourselves in the endless depths of sorrow or death. For life is always to live and achieve, have faith and there is a way every-time.
